The short version
- A household planner has to cope with two phones and more than one opinion.
- AnyList is the cheapest good shared list. Simmerset suits a house with a real allergy and a fussy eater.
- Eat This Much fits one adult planning to calorie and macro targets. Cooklist fits cooking from what is already in.
- Check that an app keeps allergies apart from dislikes, and test the shared list from a shop.
Most meal planning apps are built around one person: one account, one taste profile, one phone carrying the list. That holds up until the evening somebody else is nearer the shop, or a partner adds washing powder to a list nobody else can see, or the child who will not touch mushrooms gets served mushrooms for the third week running.
A household planner has to survive two phones and more than one opinion. So this guide asks the same questions of every app. How many people can share the plan. Whether the list updates on both phones while one of you is standing in the aisle. What the app does with somebody who cannot eat an ingredient, and with somebody who simply refuses it. And what happens to a shared week when one person changes Thursday on a Tuesday afternoon.
The short version, before the detail:
- AnyList if what you want is a shared list that stays right. It is the cheapest thing here for a household, and it is very good at that one job.
- Simmerset if you want the week’s dinners chosen for a household that holds a real allergy and a fussy eater at the same time.
- Eat This Much if one adult in the house plans against calorie and macro targets.
- Cooklist if the planning question in your kitchen is mostly what you have already got.
Prices and behaviour come from each vendor’s own pages, read on September 20, 2026. Where a vendor does not document something, this guide says so rather than guessing. A surprising amount of what families want to know sits in that second category.
What Makes a Family Planner Different From a Solo One
A planner for one person has an easy job. It learns what you like, proposes a week, writes a list, and the only person who can disagree with it is you. Add a second adult and every one of those steps grows a way to fail.
- More than one person has to be on the plan. Separate logins that can each open the week, change it, and see what the other one changed. A shared password and a screenshot in a chat thread are what households fall back on when the app will not do this.
- The list has to be right in the aisle. Whoever is shopping is often not whoever planned. If the list on that phone is yesterday’s list, the planning was wasted.
- Cannot and will not are different problems. A nut allergy is a hard line. A child who has decided mushrooms are disgusting is a ranking problem. An app that files both under “preferences” will get one of them wrong, and the dangerous mistake is treating the allergy like a dislike.
- Plans change late and from the wrong end. Somebody is late home, a dinner gets swapped, and the shopping has already started. The plan has to tell you what that swap costs before you are at the till.
- The price has to survive the household. A planner that charges per seat, or that counts only one account, pushes a household straight back onto one shared login.
The sixth thing is the one people notice last. A family planner gets used by people who did not choose it. One adult reads comparison guides and installs things; everybody else in the house is handed an app and expected to open it on a Thursday when they are already annoyed. That caps how much setup an app can demand before the rest of the household gives up on it.
Which is why several very good solo planners do badly here. Paprika keeps everything on your device and is bought once per platform, excellent for a person and awkward for a household whose phones are not all the same kind. Eat This Much starts from calorie and macro targets, exactly right for one adult with a goal, and no use at all in the argument about whether Wednesday is pasta again.
Sharing tiers are counted in adults, because an adult is somebody with their own login. Children rarely need an account. What they need is for their refusals to live somewhere the app reads when it proposes the week, rather than in somebody’s head.
Vendors also use the word “family” loosely, so it pays to translate it. Two adults sharing a flat have the same problem as two parents with three children: more than one person edits, more than one person shops, more than one person has rules about food. A single parent with young children has a different problem, because there is one login and one shopper, and most of the sharing features on this page will never be used. A household with a grandparent or a lodger who cooks twice a week has a third problem again, because that person needs occasional write access without being handed the whole account. Read every sharing limit below as a count of logins, not a count of people at the table.
Family Planners at a Glance
The sharing and sync columns record evidence, so read them that way. “Not documented” means the vendor’s own pages do not say, and where the vendor is silent this guide stays silent too. Test that column yourself in the first week, ideally with one of you standing in a shop.
- A shared list that stays rightAnyList
- An allergy and a fussy eaterSimmersetOurs
- Calorie and macro targetsEat This Much
- Cooking from what is inCooklist
| App | Best for | Sharing | Live list sync | Platform | Advertised price |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| AnyList | A shared list everybody edits | A household plan is sold as such | Advertises instantly shared lists | iOS, Android, web | USD 9.99 a year, or USD 14.99 a year for a household |
| SimmersetOurs | Shared weekly dinners with a real allergy in the house | One other adult on the free tier, up to six adults on Plus | One list per week, rebuilt from the dinners you keep | Web, installable, no native app yet | Free tier with no time limit, Plus at USD 4.99 a month or USD 39.99 a year, tax included |
| Eat This Much | An adult planning to calorie and macro targets | Not documented on the pricing page | Not documented | iOS, Android, web | USD 5 a month, billed annually |
| Cooklist | A household that cooks from what is already in | Advertises household sync | Advertises household sync, timing not documented | iOS, Android | Not exposed on the pages we read |
| Samsung Food | A household that wants one app to cover everything | Advertises shared plans and lists | Advertises shared lists, timing not documented | iOS, Android, web | Food+ at USD 6.99 a month or USD 59.99 a year |
| Plan to Eat | A household that brings its own recipes | Not documented on the product page | Not documented | iOS, Android, web | USD 5.95 a month or USD 49 a year, with a 14 day trial |
| Paprika | Keeping the recipe collection on your own devices | Not documented | Not documented, and data is kept on the device | iOS, Android, macOS, Windows | USD 4.99 on iOS and USD 29.99 on Windows, bought once per platform |
| eMeals | Being handed a week and a list | Not documented | Not documented | iOS, Android, web | From USD 4.99 a month on a 12 month plan |
| Meals Hub | Leaving Mealime without paying anything | Not documented | Not documented | iOS, Android, web | Free |
| ReciMe | Recipes that live on social platforms | Not documented | Not documented | iOS, Android, web | Five imports a week on the free tier |
| Mealie | A household with somebody who runs a server | Documents groups and households | Not documented | Self-hosted web | Free to self-host, you pay for the server |
Facts checked September 20, 2026
Two things stand out in that table. Hardly any vendor puts a number on sharing; most describe a feature and leave the household size to your imagination. And the apps that say the most about sharing are the ones built around a list, while the ones built around a plan tend to go quiet on it.
Sharing and Two Phones in One Aisle
The test takes about ten minutes. One of you stands in the shop with the list open. The other one, at home, adds an item and removes another. Count how long the shopper waits to see it. Then have the shopper tick something off and check that it goes grey at home too. Most household arguments about meal planning apps turn out to be arguments about that round trip.
AnyList advertises instantly shared lists, along with recipe collection, calendar planning and store specific filters, at USD 9.99 a year for one person and USD 14.99 a year for a household. Those store filters matter more than they sound: they cut the list down to the aisle you are standing in, which is the difference between a list you read and a list you scroll past.
Verdict: AnyList. For a household whose problem is the list rather than the menu, nothing else here is both this cheap and this focused. If you buy one thing off this page, and what you want is a shopping list two people can trust, buy that one.
Simmerset draws its line somewhere else, and the limits are worth stating exactly. The free tier shares the list with one other adult and has no time limit. Plus allows up to six adults, at USD 4.99 a month or USD 39.99 a year, tax included. Two adults can therefore run a household on it without paying, while a bigger household, or one with a grandparent who cooks on Tuesdays, has to pay to get everybody in. If a rock solid shared shopping list is the whole of what you want, buy AnyList instead. It costs less and it does that one job very well.
Three other apps document sharing in some form. Cooklist advertises household sync alongside its pantry tracking. Samsung Food advertises shared meal plans and lists. Mealie documents groups and households, though it is self-hosted, so somebody in the house ends up being the administrator. None of the three publishes what its sync means in seconds, so treat all three the same way and run the aisle test before you rely on them.
For Plan to Eat, Paprika, eMeals, Meals Hub, ReciMe and Eat This Much, the pages we read do not document household sharing at all. The vendor may well have it and simply not sell it in writing. Either way, a household should not plan around a feature nobody will confirm.
One question comes up constantly and has no published answer anywhere in this set: what happens when two people edit the same item at the same moment. One person ticks off the milk while the other is deleting it. None of these vendors documents how that gets resolved. Each app will do something particular, and you will only find out which by making it happen on purpose in week one.
Permissions are the half of sharing that gets less attention than sync. A household rarely wants everybody to have the same powers. Whoever plans wants to rebuild the week; whoever shops wants to tick things off and add the washing powder without accidentally deleting Wednesday. None of the vendors here publishes a per person permission model, so in practice everybody you invite can do everything. Usually fine, occasionally annoying, and better to know before you add a fourth login.
Then there is the part that has nothing to do with software. Whoever shops should be the one who tests the app, not the one who chose it. The person who installed it already knows where everything is, so they will walk straight past the step that stops everybody else.
Allergies, Picky Eaters and Clashing Diets in One Home
Most planners have one screen for this and call it preferences. You tick the things you do not want, and behind the screen every tick weighs the same. That is fine for one person, because one person knows which of their own ticks are serious. It falls apart in a household, for a reason that becomes obvious the first time you hit it.
A household’s exclusions are really several lists belonging to different people, and they carry different weights. A nut allergy holds on a Friday, holds for a lovely recipe, and holds when the app has run low on options. A partner who is off dairy this month is firm but temporary. A child who has decided mushrooms are disgusting should push recipes down the running order without removing a third of the catalogue.
When an app merges those, one of two things goes wrong. Either it treats everything as soft, and sooner or later it proposes the thing somebody cannot eat, which is the expensive failure. Or it treats everything as hard, the pool of acceptable recipes collapses, and by Wednesday you are being offered the same three dinners as last week. Households tend to blame their own fussiness for that second one when the cause is the data model.
Simmerset asks these as two separate questions and keeps them apart. An allergy or a diet takes a recipe out of the plan, even when few recipes are left, while a dislike only moves it down the ranking. That split is the reason one household can hold a real allergy and a fussy eater at the same time without the week collapsing into repeats.
The same design shows up on the shopping list. Every line on a Simmerset list names the dinner it came from, and quantities merge across dinners where the units allow it. So when the child’s dinner is the one that gets dropped, you can see which quantities to leave on the shelf instead of guessing at the till.
Elsewhere the evidence is thinner than you would hope. Mealime advertised more than two hundred personalisation options, and it closes on October 21, 2026, so it is not somewhere to move to now. Eat This Much generates plans from calorie and macro targets, with budgets, schedules and pantry priority, which answers a different question well: it is built around one adult’s numbers, and it does not document a per person exclusion model for a household. eMeals sells curated weekly plans across meal styles, so the unit of choice is the household’s style rather than each person’s rules. Samsung Food advertises detailed nutrition, which helps you check a plan after the fact rather than shape one up front.
For the rest of the table, per person exclusions are not documented on the pages we read, and this guide will not invent them.
There is a way to live with an app that has only one preferences list. Put the hard exclusions in and nothing else, because every tick will be treated as a wall and a wall is the only thing that belongs there. Handle the soft refusals by hand, by skipping the proposals that will not fly. That is more work every week, and it keeps the planner producing options instead of running out by Wednesday. The cost is that the shared plan stops carrying the thing that made it worth sharing: the second adult has to be told what the child will not eat, because the app no longer knows.
Verdict: Simmerset. It is the only planner here that publishes a difference between cannot and will not, and a household with both kinds of rule in it will feel that difference every week. If nobody in your house has a hard exclusion, skip this section and buy on sharing or price instead.
Weekly Planning and What Happens When Someone Changes Dinner
Planning a week is the easy part. Every app in this table will help you fill seven boxes. What separates them is a Tuesday afternoon when one of those boxes changes and half the shopping is already done.
The answers come in three shapes.
- The calendar shape. Plan to Eat puts a planning calendar at the centre of the product and builds the shopping list by aisle from the recipes you collected yourself. AnyList advertises calendar planning alongside its lists. You drag a dinner to a different day and the list follows. This shape suits a household that already knows its own recipes.
- The delivered week shape. eMeals sells a curated week for a chosen meal style with its shopping list attached. Meals Hub carries the Mealime catalogue and the plan to list flow that team built, free, inside the Albertsons apps and websites, and it works for households with no Albertsons store nearby. The week arrives as a unit. Swapping one dinner inside a delivered week is not something either vendor documents.
- The regenerated week shape. Simmerset proposes three to seven dinners, and the single grocery list follows from the ones you keep. Change the dinners and the list is rebuilt from what is left.
The regenerated shape handles the Tuesday afternoon question best, for one specific reason. Every line on the list names the dinner it came from, so dropping Thursday tells you which quantities were only there for Thursday. You do not have to remember whether the second tin of tomatoes was for the chilli or the pasta. The limit is obvious once you say it out loud: knowing what to leave on the shelf does not get you a refund on what is already in the trolley.
Verdict: Simmerset, narrowly, and only on this one behaviour. A household that swaps dinners often will feel the difference. A household that plans on Sunday and sticks to it will not, and should ignore this section entirely.
The multi person version of the same question goes undocumented everywhere in this set: one of you changes Thursday while the other is halfway down the aisle. Whether the shopper gets a warning, a silently updated list, or nothing until they refresh is not published by any vendor here. In a household with two working adults it comes up often, so stage it deliberately in the first week rather than discovering it during a real shop.
One habit helps more than any feature. Agree that the plan is frozen once somebody has left the house. It is a rule about people rather than software, and it removes most of the cases where the software’s behaviour would have mattered.
Platforms, Data Ownership and Long Term Reliability
A family app has to open on the phones the family already has, and those phones are rarely all the same. Simmerset is at its weakest here, so it should be said plainly: there is no native iOS or Android app yet. It is an installable web app. That works, and it is also not what a household expects when somebody says “get the app”. If your house lives inside the App Store, that is a real cost and you should price it in honestly.
Nearly everything else here ships native apps. AnyList, Plan to Eat, eMeals, Samsung Food, ReciMe and Meals Hub list iOS, Android and web. Cooklist lists iOS and Android. Paprika covers iOS, Android, macOS and Windows and sells each platform separately, at USD 4.99 on iOS and USD 29.99 on Windows. Watch that per platform pricing in a mixed household: two different kinds of phone means buying it twice.
Then there is what happens when a planner stops existing. Mealime is being discontinued on October 21, 2026. Personal data is deleted at shutdown, and it never offered an export, so households that spent years building plans in it are finding out that the recipes were never theirs to take. Our switching guide covers what carries over and what does not.
That makes it a fair question to ask of any planner you are about to commit to.
- Simmerset. Export everything as JSON whenever you like, and delete your own account without asking support. Both are available on the free tier.
- Paprika. Recipes, menus and the grocery list are kept on the device and work offline, and the app is a one time purchase rather than a subscription. Nothing switches off when a billing cycle ends.
- Mealie. Imports, calendar planning, shopping lists, groups and households, backups, exports and a REST API, self-hosted. The running cost is your own server rather than a subscription, and the data is on hardware you control.
- Meals Hub. Free, and it carries the Mealime catalogue forward, which is the point of it. It lives inside another company’s grocery apps, so its future is that company’s decision.
Verdict: Paprika, for a household that wants the collection to stay on its own devices and never wants another subscription. If somebody in the house will happily run a server, Mealie goes further and costs nothing but that effort. Neither of them will help you decide what to cook, which is the trade you are making.
Price as the Household Grows
Comparing sticker prices tells you very little. Compare instead what happens when the second adult joins, and then the third.
AnyList is the clearest here: USD 9.99 a year for one person, USD 14.99 a year for a household. The household tier exists, it is named, and the gap between the two is small enough that nobody has to think about it.
Simmerset splits at two adults. The free tier shares the list with one other adult and has no time limit, so a household of two adults can run on it indefinitely without paying. Plus costs USD 4.99 a month or USD 39.99 a year, tax included, and allows up to six adults. If your household is two adults, you are not paying. If it is three or more, you are, and you should compare that USD 39.99 against what else it buys you rather than against free.
The rest of the field, as advertised:
- Meals Hub is free.
- Mealie is free to self-host, with the server as the real cost.
- ReciMe allows five imports a week on its free tier.
- Eat This Much is USD 5 a month, billed annually.
- eMeals starts from USD 4.99 a month on a 12 month plan.
- Plan to Eat is USD 5.95 a month or USD 49 a year, with a 14 day trial.
- Samsung Food offers Food+ at USD 6.99 a month or USD 59.99 a year.
- Paprika is a one time purchase per platform, USD 4.99 on iOS and USD 29.99 on Windows.
- Cooklist does not expose a current consumer price on the pages we read.
None of these vendors, apart from AnyList and Simmerset, publishes a price that changes with the number of adults. That is mostly because most of them do not sell household sharing as a distinct thing at all.
The second cost never appears on a pricing page. A subscription planner is rented, so the plans, the collected recipes and the tuned preferences keep working only while somebody keeps paying. Paprika is bought once, stops costing money and carries on. Mealie turns the bill into a server and a little maintenance. A free tier with no time limit, which is what Simmerset gives two adults, sits in between: nothing to cancel, and a ceiling you hit the moment a third adult needs a login. Across a few years those differences outweigh the monthly numbers, and they bite harder in a household, because a household has more stored up to lose when the paying stops.
Verdict: AnyList again on price. USD 14.99 a year for a household sharing one list is the cheapest real answer in this table. Paprika works out cheaper over several years if one platform and one person will do, and free is free if Meals Hub reaches your shops or two adults is the whole of your household.
Which One Should Your Family Choose
- AnyList. Buy it if the problem is the shopping list and two phones, and you are happy deciding the menu yourselves.
- Simmerset. Buy it if somebody in the house has an allergy or a diet that cannot bend, somebody else is fussy, and you want the week proposed for you rather than assembled by you.
- Eat This Much. Buy it if one adult is planning against calorie and macro targets and the rest of the household eats what appears.
- Cooklist. Buy it if your question is mostly what is already in the cupboard and what is about to go off.
- Samsung Food. Buy it if you want one app covering imports, sharing and nutrition, and you accept more setup before the first list.
- Plan to Eat. Buy it if you already have the recipes and want a calendar plus an aisle list around them.
- Paprika. Buy it if you want the collection kept on your own devices, offline, with no subscription, and your phones are all the same kind.
- eMeals. Buy it if you would rather be handed a week than build one.
- Meals Hub. Take it if you are leaving Mealime and want the same recipes for nothing.
- ReciMe. Take it if your recipes arrive from Instagram and TikTok rather than from cookbooks.
- Mealie. Run it if somebody in the house enjoys running a server and wants the data on their own hardware.
For a closer look at what each of these shopping lists does once you are in the shop, we compared them separately.
Frequently Asked Questions
How Do We Move Off Mealime Without Losing Our Recipes?
Start now rather than in October. Mealime is discontinued on October 21, 2026, personal data is deleted at shutdown, and there has never been an export feature, so nothing comes out automatically. Meals Hub is the free successor and keeps the Mealime catalogue, which covers you if what you want is the recipes rather than your own plans. Anything you added yourself, and any household preferences you tuned over the years, is worth writing down somewhere neutral before the date. Our Mealime switching guide goes through it properly.
Which App Is Easiest for a Partner Who Dislikes Technology?
Pick by how few screens stand between them and the thing they need. If their job is shopping, AnyList gives them about the smallest surface available: a list, a tick, an aisle filter. If their job is saying what they will and will not eat, an app that asks those questions once and then leaves them alone beats one that invites them to browse. Expecting the reluctant person to do the planning fails in every app on this page. Let one person plan, and make sure the other person’s phone shows something useful with no setup at all.
What About a Child or Partner Who Refuses Certain Foods?
Get the app to hold the refusal, then check which category it filed it under. A refusal is not an allergy, and an app that treats it as one will strip your options down to nothing within a month. Simmerset asks for these separately: an allergy or a diet takes a recipe out even when few recipes are left, and a dislike only pushes it down the ranking. In apps that publish no difference between the two, everything you enter becomes a wall, so enter the hard exclusions only and deal with the soft refusals by skipping proposals.
Can We Use More Than One App?
Plenty of households do, and the usual split is a planner plus a list. You choose the week in one app, and the shopping happens in a shared list app that everybody already has open. It works because the two jobs have different audiences: one person plans, everybody shops. The cost is that the two are not connected, so a late change lands in one place and not the other, and somebody has to carry it across. If that handover keeps failing in your house, that is the argument for one app doing both.
What Happens to Our Plan If an App Shuts Down?
Assume it will, and ask before you commit a year of planning to it. The test is whether you can get your own data out today, without asking anybody and without waiting on a support reply. Simmerset exports everything as JSON and lets you delete your account yourself, both on the free tier. Mealie keeps backups and exports on your own server. Paprika holds its data on your device and works offline. Mealime offered none of that, which is why its closure is costing households the collections they built in it.
Whichever app you land on, keep one habit: once a quarter, export whatever it will give you and put the file somewhere you would still find it if the app vanished overnight. It takes a couple of minutes and it keeps the decision reversible. If you want to try ours, Simmerset will plan three dinners for you before you create an account.


